Swinging at Our Age

Swinging once you're at our ages is different than what is was when we started all those years ago. First, your bodies are different. While Viagra, Cialis and Levitra help men out, but unfortunately nothing yet exists that medical experts have found for women. Some women continue with the same libido after menopause. Others find that they have a reduced libido. And for people who are active the lifestyle, this can make things a little more difficult.

Any who has been in this lifestyle knows one thing, it really is one driven by women. Women have the power of saying no, and since men are such hound dogs, they tend to control who does what, when. So if the female half of the couple has a reduction in her sex drive, that has a serious impact on a couple's play time. Post menopause, many women find their bodies changing and this can have a negative self image. From our own perspectives, we've learned that patience and communications are even more imperative now.